Introduction.

I drive these small habits to make it understandable the fundamentals of success. I write this blog by taking the principles from the success principles book and add some reasoning to make a content approach. We view these habits in routine life as clues but don’t understand Why?

Habit 1. Take 100% responsibility.

What’s going on in your life, you should take 100% Responsibility. Responsibility means you understand what is necessary for you.

Adopt the following steps to become pro responsible in life;

1. Your truth is ugly but remembers it’s yours and you can change it.
2. 3 Give-ups of responsibility.

Excuses-Blaming-complaining.

3. You should focus on change your response rather than the event you face. Your desire outcome needs your uplifting response.

4. Identify the right person in your life, believe me, it impacts, speedily.

The person who fails in his life wants others to fail in their life. In short, a Failed person loves or attract to fail.

Chose these people who at least do anything in his life with devotion as you want. 

5. Adopt the simplest path to achieve the responsibility.

You should understand that simple is not means easy.

Responsibility is hard to take because you have chosen your direction with full concentration, intuition, and experience.

6. Pay attention to your results, because it never lies. What you do comes out as a result.

Habit 2. Be clear Why.

Take a reverse view from the result to measure it.

You should understand the reason behind your life on earth. Simon Sinek shows the importance of Why in life.

I give you the habit to clear your why as a routine. 

1. Simon Sinek, in his lecture, measures the success cycle of 2 Companies; Apple and Microsoft.

Why does Apple leave behind Microsoft within a few years? Because Apple focuses on why while Microsoft tries to compete for apple. 

2. You are not an accident. Your purpose is to show your best for surviving others.

3. Your joy is inside of you. You do not need to explain. Your best explanation is your embodiment, which comes from Why.

Habit 3. The decision of What you want.

We often stuck in the wants of our parents and friends. What we want is more crucial than others want about you.

1. Shift your environment from those who put wants on you. 
2. Choose from the least choices you want. Never make multiple choices.
3. Add your motions in the decision to feel it.
4. Make a confident expression with the decision because it makes the decision reliable.
5. You should Decide by surpassing the habit over Goal. It means your goal represents the reason for the decision.

Habit 4. Become a believer.

You should need to believe in your self at any cost. Once you believe in yourself so, you will force others to believe in you. 

If we are living in a society where people don’t do remarkable things, we get beliefs like them, Such believes are limited.

Limited belief.

As clear from the word limited, that means, to some extent, not, endless. A limited belief is a statement or believes that you think is true but limits you in some way. 

The reason behind limited belief.

The 3 Reasons for the limited belief that you should identify is;

1. Family beliefs.

We have a lot of families who believe like girls should not move out of the house after the evening, Our forefathers come to see us in trouble, we should take esteem of family through our actions, 

we should choose a career to improve family reputation, etc.

These beliefs impose on us since we were a child. 

Solution. We should Break them to create a powerful belief to be authentic in life. 

2. Education.

We learn certain authors who are our nation’s heroes. We make a belief of unaccepting other nation’s heroes. In the end, We make enemies of certain people or cultures for no reason.

Solution. We should need to accept others and take research about our childhood educational believes. Research impacts on us sharply to reconstruct our perception.

3. Experience.

The experience, we face in our life, which impacts our emotions, has left some results on us. We make beliefs through this experience.

We should rethink and reflect our thoughts about our experience as a routine.

You should think like successful people about your belief to measure your success.

You would cover these 3 Points about limitless belief habit which are;

1. Believe is an attitude.
2. Don’t waste your life believing you cant.
3. What others think about you none of your business.

Habit 5. Becomes an inverse paranoid.

When an event occurs, we have 2 Answers towards the event;

1. This event should not happen, and I can not face it at that time. This behavior or response sabotage your being.
2. I am not ready for this event, but there is something to learn from this event. This behavior boosts your mind towards learning and known as inverse paranoid.

God creates us and has someplace for us in the world. You should find opportunities in everything you experience.

I suggest you ask this question to yourself when you feel stuck in any event.

How do I use this experience to take advantage?

Habit 6. Power of goal setting.

Goals define your way to go in the future. It is the cornerstone of our success stories.

The idea is about thinking about what you can do in the future. The idea requires some possibility, but goal charms with the defined purpose of 100% possibility to achieve.

Here in the image, I show you the example of how to make a goal;

I talk about 3 Hurdles that we face in the selection of goal;

1. Overthinking.
2. fear
3. lack of resources.

You should overcome these situations by setting more than 1 Goal in your life.

Your goal should stretch your comfort zone.

Jack Canfield says that You can maintain a book of goals in which you can write your goals of life.

He suggests rereading your goal 3 Times in 24 hours. You can select more than 1 Goal to boost your interest in goals.

Habit 7. Chunk it down.

We should divide your work into many parts so that you dive into each part of the goal. 

The writer gives us a mind mapping technique that holds 3 Elements.

1. Center circle. That is the main goal to achieve.
2. Outer circles. That gives the sub-goals to achieve a goal.
3. Spokes. It is the statement and guideline to follow for attaining sub-goals.

Moreover, the First 20 hours book is a complete guide to achieve something fast.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MgBikgcWnY

Josh Kaufman explains that 1st 20hours to learn something is crucial. He gave the idea of dividing skill into subskill, to achieve the goal easily and fast. We should all the ears to accomplish sub-skills rather than an entire skill.

Habit 8. Success leaves clues.

We should use this technique to read and learn anything fast in our routine life as a habit.

It is the quote of Tony Robbins, a well known motivational mentor.
It is about to take a deep observation of the success of others. When you see someone leaves the crowd and prominent in society. Remember, there are some hints.
There are some habits or qualities that rest underneath the personality that uplifts. You should identify, understand, and adopt these qualities to ensure success like someone.

Habit 9. Release the obstacles.

You should understand the importance of brake the hurdles in front of your success.

You should avoid dumbness like an elephant.

When an elephant tied up with rope in his childhood. He tries to break the rope put fail. It stops after a few times, but when it grows up,

It can break the rope easily. But never tries because it sets believe it cannot break the rope since it was a child, It should not try anymore.

You should brake your beliefs to move yourself out from comfort zone, 3 Methods to move out from it is below;

1. Use affirmations.
2. Enhance your Internal self-image.
3. Change behavior toward false beliefs.

Habit 10. Only see what you want.

You should see What you want in everything. Because of what you want, We can visualize our future. We should use printed pictures and add some smell to the event we want.
Use 5 senses towards your want. Never forget to add some emotions to what you want.
Vision boards and goal books can make your dreams comes true. It means you need to left all the things that stop you from what you want.
Stop seeing what makes you in trouble as I share with you the quote below;

Habit 11. Act as it.

You should act as you want to do what you fancy. Edward De Bono also gave the idea of 7 Hats, and Prove that What we act as becomes our way to take perception and think. We have 6 Hats, which refer to a specific way of behavior and thinking.

Take action because talk leads to no result. We need to start through action and act on what we want. 

Word satisfaction.

Do we hear a lot of this word in a routine life that I’m satisfied with what the word means? As we see that the last 6 Words combine to form action. The (satisf) is a Latin word that means enough.

By Combining, Satisfaction=Enough+Action.

You should satisfy your self at any cost, and if you fail, let allow you to face. Nothing happens until you take action. Be a man of action.

Habit 12. Connect in search for the ideal work.

It means you should willing to change your career- if it doesn’t give you ideal pleasure. When you lean to your want, a momentum establishes. 

This habit adopts by covering the following points.

1. Be willing to start without seeing the whole path. It is similar to dive into an unknown sea. Because you don’t know the absolute chaos, You can face the music of little mistake at any point.
2. Sometimes, you have not a proper dream of what to do. You should need to find the motivation underneath of what you do.
   1. We are not lost. We are exploring. Always all the ears to find the path that defines you irrespective of the existence of path and conditions.

Habit 13. Watch in the eyes of fear.

It means you lose control of any condition and especially on yourself.

I suggest you steps to stop fear as far as possible.

1. You have to be willing to feel the fear. Once you know the cause, you can treat it.
2. Remind the things you can control instead of cannot control. 

My decision to left my friend: I was deciding to left my friend because he tried to make me feel worst with the creation of worse blame games. On the 1st, I believe that I can make him understand myself. But after a while, his blame game according to worse as I have ever seen in my life. Because It is in my control to choose or left him. I take my control and use it. I spend my time reading, which I waste with him.

Then, I realize that to convince him is like pounding my head against the wall. I left him.

3. Imagine the worse scenario before.

Does it seem that why we make the worst scenario? Because it is essential to face it. Unfortunately, sometimes conditions to achieve something turn into the worst. We stay on the edge of decision between 2,

Win and lost.

It’s up to us to choose which we need badly.

Do you have an idea about the word fear itself;

Jack wrote that fear stands for;

Fantasize.

Experiences.

Appearing.

Real.

Some times fear can be worse as a phobia, which is more solemn than ever.

Habit 14. Pay the price by asking.

What you want in your life, you need to pay for it, Whether it is a relationship or business deal. Every person who achieves a luxurious lifestyle and success in life has a paying story.

This habit requires the following 3 Steps;

1. Make a will to pay the price of your work.
2. Identify what needs to pay.
3. When you pay, how many times You can improve your pay.

A success story of paying:

Remember That the difference between what you want and where you are is a commitment to sacrifice.

You need to ask yourself first and then for those who have already done what you want.

Your mentor should be high, wide, and handsome.

When your mentor is impressive, You should understand the paying and persistence to stay impressive.

Ask What you want before pay.

You should ask others what you want and don’t be afraid of asking.

People, perhaps you don’t ask what you want to be because of shyness, fear, and the lethal reason is rejection.

5 Steps to ask what you want with confidence.

1. Ask as if you.
2. Assume you can get it.
3. Ask someone who can give it to you.
4. Be clear and specific without overthinking.
5. Ask more than 1times, until you don’t understand.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by asking.

Warning. When you ask, take care of your self-esteem. Don’t allow anyone to hurt your self through criticism, and imposing.

Spot, A good Samaritan could never sabotage your self-respect.

Habit 15. Face positive and negative feedback.

We all have 2 Types of feedback, positive and negative. We are often willing to face positive feedback, but we reject the importance of negative ones.

Here is the Best thing since sliced bread.

We all face rejection in our lives, and everyone hates rejection.

Why does rejection hurt?

Guy winch a ted talk speaker, and phycologist give an idea to face it.

According to Winch, When a person suffers from rejection place in the MRI machine. The results are surprisingly similar to the person hurt with any physical pain.

The worse scenario of rejection is when we face it, we put ourselves in self-harm state. When we feel the lack of respect towards our self-esteem, we attack our selves. It is just starting to make the issue worse, not the Last straw.

The good news is you can use it to your advantage.

1. Justice with the criticism.

Understand the circumstances, talk, and behavior. There is something you need to improve, and something others should understand and improve. Remember, your control is on yourself, not others. Forget about other mistakes, flourish your personality by overcoming and improving day after day.

2. Recall your self-worth.

You should remind your qualities. You can make a list of at least 10 Qualities that add meanings in your life and build your self up. It reduces your emotional pain and gives you first aid towards rejection.

3. Reconnect with your social connection.

You should connect yourself socially and connect with others that respect and add value in your life.

4. Improve your selection criteria.

You should select the person who understands you. You can do some tests to check another person’s ideas before show your ones. Create your criteria by building boundaries in your life. 

Habit 16. Commit to never-ending improvement with patience.

It refers to the growth mindset. You should improve continuously to get fulfillment.

Remember, there is always something to learn.

You need to all the ears on personality development.

There is a lot of improvement you can do, like reading, viewing ted talks, etc.

The game ends with a commitment to yourself. Personal growth requires an abundance of commitment.

I spill the beans for your commitment to success;

1. Success demands discipline.
2. Make successful habits.
3. Keep score of your success.
4. Focus on each step.
5. Develop An Unsatisfied Hunger.

For all the stumbling blocks, you need to pass the persistence test. 

It means you increase the level of your grit. 

Why grit?

Sometimes in our success journey. We face wet behind the ears situations, Need to show patience otherwise, pay an arm and a leg. 

Angela Duckworth has great research on the same topic. I suggest you check out your level of grit through the test below:

https://angeladuckworth.com/grit-scale

Habit 17. Expand Expectation. It is not cast a bomb.

It gives the idea of a big picture thing. I share with you the beautiful quote of Jennifer Lopez that is;

Think as big as you can.

You need to expand your vision, ideas and believes with the time. 

Advantages of expectation:

Research proves that your expectation and attention plays a vital role in the creation of your perception. Expectation creates perception. Expectations DIG your HEELS IN towards struggle, and you are willing to go for the extra mile.

If you give extra, remember you would receive some extra. 

Rule of 5:

The rule supports you towards expectations. The rule is easy to perform 5 Activities for your success in routine life.

5 Activities that are the daily step of your success LET YOU OFF THE HOOK of failure and discouragement.

Conclusion:

I give you 17 small mini habits that can join together and build powerful habits of success unconditionally for you. I give you steps and techniques on how to perform them.
Do you feel them applicable in routine life?