Carl Jung has enticing phycological wisdom on love. Carl Jung explains spirituality and psychology connection.
Love associates with God’s image and provokes risk-taking. It transforms individuals. Know yourself through another individual. You see yourself (shadow or action) in another person. Shadow hinders the clarity of love.
Introverts and extroverts make the best romantic couples. Lover weakness is loneliness fear. Love, at first sight, is associated with dreams of both genders. Reality is different from fantasy attachment.
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Love is God’s image:
Carl associates love with the phycological condition. It’s a function of a relationship.
It has a feeling toned Condition. We view love as practical that aligns with God’s image.
Risk everything:
Love puts us in risk-taking. What units us. Nothing is possible without it. Our conscious integrates with the conscious; gives purpose with potential. Shattering emotions happen. It disturbs ego identity. Our self-questioning arises.
Love yields Transformation:
Loving other impacts the shadow aspects. We love to accept and shadow these aspects. Love has an energy that impacts inward and outward.
Love that has a magical impact over the unconscious yields mutual individuation. Read Carl Rogers 3core conditions for client and therapist relationship.
Golden threat:
It’s a relationship with an invisible telegraph wire connection between 2humans. That may represent another relationship form.
Individuates requires relevance. No real relationship happens without individuation.
Chemical reaction:
Carl refers to meeting personalities as a chemical substance. Both transform with any reaction. Transformation of love differs persons change. A person can differ his real or projected transformation.
Encourages Expansive being:
Love results in emotional shattering. The breaking of emotions shakes Ego identification. The experience gives Ego death. It creates an expansive way of being.
Soul mirroring in love:
Jung explains his experience about mirroring soul in his Redbook. He finds his soul through the woman he loves. Unconcious meet first in relationship content with a partner. It develops urges for higher consciousness. Fulfilling its purpose require your whole self.
Loving others is self-reflection:
Loving others is easier than loving yourself. We accept others’ light and shadow aspects of others. Jung also mentions that we see ourselves in others. The traits we see in others is the reflection of traits within us.
Shadow and Love:
We all have bright and dark aspects. Shadow consciousness requires considerable moral efforts.
It demands to know dark aspects of personality. It’s a way towards self-knowledge.
Shadow creates by the person’s himself. It’s encountering hurts you.
A person is free as his mind allows. Sometimes, the mind creates a barrier between the person’s reality and the world’s reality. Delusion and neurosis take place.
Love is associated with clarity.
Shadow is an obstacle to love. Shadow hinders internal or external love.
You allow your part to discover capacities and differences. You get a reinforced version of the whole.
Introvert and Extrovert attachment:
Introverts get married to extroverts for compensation. Unconscious love enhances the fear of objects for introverts. That Unconscious fear becomes an attraction for the extroverts.
Introverts have impersonal and powerful attitudes. Unconcious introvert attitudes are lust and pleasures.
Extroverts attitude has personal human being love. Unconcious introvert attitude associated with tyrant power.
Animus and anima Attraction:
Carl believes that love, at first sight, can happen. Man doesn’t know the woman. You try to fit your imagination over the real woman.
You realize the results later.
Animus works with power. Anima ejects illusion poison or seduction.
The outcome is never negative. Both attract each other.
Carl Jung shares the Animus and Anima attraction. Animus is the image of a man in the female psyche.
Anima is the female image in the male psyche.
Anima connects with individual dreams, spiritual guidance and creativity.
Carl Jung lover archetype:
Carl Jung has 12archetypes. A lover wants intimacy and experience. They want to be in a relationship with those they love. They want physical and emotional connection as possible. Lovers express gratitude, compassion, loyalty and commitment.
It fears unhealthy relationships. A lover has the challenge to love himself. Rejection and failure in pursuing are also hurting.
Self Love:
Self-acceptance gives access to self-kindness. It makes you helpful. Lack of self-kindness hurts you. Integrity is fearless towards anxiety. Self-hater can’t love others. Love has destiny power.
Self-acceptance helps others:
Looking outside yields dreaming. Inward looking results awakes. Accepting yourself completely is a terrifying thing. Carl Jung On Love represents the whole self-acceptance picture. Read The Four Loves by C.S Lewis summary.
Cark Jung connects helping others with accepting yourself. The person doesn’t condemn things in others.
Self-kindness for self-acceptance:
He accepts the inner and other’s devil. It’s free from prejudiced objectivity. Accepting things is essential to change them.
Identify the least part in himself. The person requires self-kindness. He discovers the enemies within himself.
Never deceive self-kindness:
Accepting himself is a tough task. We deny our lower versions. We ignore ourselves by busying through others’ troubles.
Carl says we deceive our benevolence that way. Modern phycology says it’s impossible to fulfil.
Integrate person:
Jung accepts his fear, anxiety and guilt without shame. Alan Watts writes about Jung’s integrity. Eliminating guilt and Anxiety doesn’t make an integrated individual. Integrate person feel anxiety, guilt or other negative emotions. He has no recrimination towards feeling them.
Confession works:
A confession includes the worst part of humans. The person observes unseen divine will.
See lower nature side:
Carl Jung believes that knowing the lower side of nature is hopeful for a person. It assists in understanding and loving their fellows. It boosts tolerance and reduces hypocrisy.
We never suffer from injustice and violence towards our nature.
Self-haters can’t love:
The person who hates himself can’t love others. We feel uncomfortable with such a person.
They impose these Uncomfortable things on others.
They Tortue others through behaviour. Carl associates it with vice.
Destiny force:
Carl believes that love has a destiny force. Love has impactful power.
Love enhances impacts to choose specific. It’s directional.
Religion is careful observation and consideration of dynamic factors as Power. These factors are powerful, dangerous and helpful.
Love and power:
Carl Jung has great wisdom about love and power.
More love ends power will. Everyone has a choice for love over destructive power. Life is more than love or power.
Love reduces Power:
Distance from love gives the sense of power. Spirit always gain Power. The problem with love and power exists.
The presence of love eliminates power will. Love lacks with power existence. One shadows the other.
Life is above love:
Flesh power break for our love. Love breaks towards life sake. Life is above love. Power is not necessary, but life.
More Than Power:
God should powerful than our Evil. God is powerful than happiness and lust.
Carl Jung On Love explains God as more than power. God is also Powerlessness.
The religion of love has a psychological association with the worship of power.
Destructive Power vs Love:
Man has destruction power in his hands. He can resist and temper his will with love and wisdom. It’s hardly doable for his resources.
We can find reasons for Love or Power. Every man has access to choose.